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That feeling when you suddenly realise that your mr/miss (this doesn’t need to be gender-specific) wonderful-ish wasn’t worth the trouble they caused you. .
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you tell yourself that the narcissist, who is such hell is “wonderful really”. until, one day, you wake up and realise that being couple up with a vampire is the worst case scenario and being without them gives you a second chance at life. .
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peace and solitude are infinitely preferable to having a narcissist in tour life. .
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comment 39 star 3,148 4 weeks ago

If you wanted to distill mountains of relationship advice into one simple lesson, this one would work well. .
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anger is no justification for abuse and disrespect. .
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love is not meant to be conditional on the “loved” one being 100% perfect 24/7. .
“passion” is no excuse for a lack of respect for your feelings. .
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be with people who respect and value you. their respect is the necessary condition of your association with them. .
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that will exclude the narcissists and all other objectionables. .
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drawing that beautiful boundary doesn’t mean that you are showing a lack of respect/loyalty/love to them. it means that you are -finally - showing respect loyalty and love to yourself. 🎉🎉 .
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has your life ever been made worse by cutting off people who made you feel that you were no tv worthy of respect? didn’t think so. repost from @ledbyheart .
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comment 27 star 2,308 4 weeks ago

Truth. the moment you realise your worth is not tied to how others - especially toxic people - see you, you are set free. .
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free to be happy. free to be you. free to be fulfilled - and loved for who you are not what you do to service uncaring people. be you, your way. double tap if you, too, have found/are finding your power after letting go of how others see you. repost from @sister_shanti .
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comment 46 star 3,062 July 2019

When you separate your life from the mindfuckery of a narcissist, these are just some of the gifts that you can give to yourself and your loved ones. .
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some toxic relationships start better than others. some narcissists are more invested in seeing them as mr/ms wonderful than others. .
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but it is always about the narcissist’s self-image. .
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once the narcissist starts to feel that you don’t burnish their self-image (in itself a nonsense) to their impossible standard, the direction of travel in the relationship will be all downhill. .
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the increasingly elusive “good times” are underpinned by your anxiety while the bad times become the norm. .
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you can’t turn back time to the way that things seemed at the start anymore than an avalanche can roll back up the mountain side. repost from @straighten_your_crowns @enlightenedconsciousness .
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comment 119 star 2,204 3 weeks ago

Red flags appear at any point in a relationship. the sooner you pick up on them, the less painful life will be for you. .
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so, if someone ever offers you a worrying statement about themselves, believe it. take it, if you like, as them offering you a clue - or a get out of jail free card - and use it. .
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one of the questions i learned to ask myself, as a result of my long, miserable experience with a narcissist, was,
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“what kind of harm do i think this person could be capable of doing to me?” .
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if i had any concerns, that was the end of it. . .
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any disquieting statements from them, however “funny” or “innocent” they were made out to be, i treated them as deal-breakers. .
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quite a lot of toxic people will tell you something, early on, that could have saved you a lot of misery - if only you had known to listen. it pays to learn as many of the lessons of the past as you possibly can. what did “your” narcissist say to you, early on, that would now be a complete deal-breaker? please share for the benefit of others, also. .
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comment 228 star 6,798 November 2019

Especially post christmas day, this is an important truth to take on board. 3 explanations and they are out is reasonable, even generous. .
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people only ever need to be told something repeatedly because they make an art form of not listening. .
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people do pay attention - it seems to me - when you tell them to f**k off. .
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it’s just a question of you feeling that you have the right to shift from living by kind permission of other people mode to living your own life mode. repost from @straighten_your_crowns .
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comment 78 star 2,841 4 weeks ago

Don’t let anyone - especially not you - guilt trip you for not wasting your life waiting for a toxic person to change. .
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part of your role on this earth it to become an adult. you don’t become an adult by enabling other adults to behave like the toddler from hell. .
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the best thing that you can possibly do with a toxic person is show them that not everybody will fall for their lies and tolerate their narcissistic behavior. .
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you deserve better. they deserve to know that you don’t play with toxic children. .
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you owe yourself better than that. if you are not prepared to make a stand for your own mental and physical health, why do you suppose a toxic person won’t systematically destroy you? repost from @thecrimsonkiss .
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comment 94 star 3,758 last month

If you have ever been in a toxic relationship, how much thought have you given to the parts of you that resonate with that other person’s toxicity?
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those parts can include the parts that “recognise” their ill treatment of you - and even feel, at some level, that it is justified. .
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those parts also include that part that wants to love and heal them. .
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on the surface, that part sounds so reasonable and worthy. however...
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the reality is very different. other people are not yours to redeem - which, curiously, sounds so much less comfortable than “save”. .
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plus, when you set out to redeem a loved one, you aren’t actually doing it for the -disinterested - love of mankind. rather, it is all about getting your own life to look -and feel - the way you want it to. .
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all of this takes you away from the real job - which is healing yourself. honor yourself enough to focus on that. your future self will love you for it. so will any number is worthwhile people. double r these if you are happy to accept that love attempting to heal a toxic loved one is not your job. repost from @lisamessenger . .
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comment 54 star 1,884 October 2019

Narcissists denature love. they use the word when it suits them. but they use it to say, .
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“i am putting this commodity on the table. you get no guarantees regarding quality or duration. but in return i expect you to surrender your whole life to me.”
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that has nothing to do with authentic love. .
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every bullet point in this meme illustrates an aspect that healthy love will provide and support. .
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the “love” of a narcissist will rob you of every last one - and s**k the life right out of you, for as long as you let it. repost from @nedratawwab .
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comment 69 star 6,558 November 2019

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comment 2 star 18 4 hours ago

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comment 1 star 6 6 hours ago

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comment 6 star 47 17 hours ago

Hidup ini..
tak perlu banyak drama,
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comment 10 star 134 Yesterday

Alla gente piace parlarmi dietro.
avrò una schiena socievole o un culo che parla 😂
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ma come si suol dire...
bene o male. purché se ne parli 🤭👋👋👋👋
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comment 1 star 172 2 weeks ago

"aver frequentato certe parti buie di me... mi ha fatto accettare l'oscurità che c'è in tutti noi e perdonarla.
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comment 1 star 99 October 2019

"... quando importuni anche la fotografa degli sposi😂🙊"
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grazie per la pazienza, la gentilezza e la professionalità!
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comment 1 star 124 October 2019

Come in una cascata, anche l'acqua cade, ma scivolando disegna un quadro meraviglioso.
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comment 2 star 192 April 2019